baby meomories

When I gave birth to my first child it was exciting yet scary at the same time it was my first time experiencing something like this.  Me and my husband was sleeping and I thought my stomach was just hurting because of what I had ate but it was really my contractions starting.  I drove my self to the hospital me and my husband and the hospital I went to did not deliver babies so they had to call an ambulance to ship me to the right hospital. Riding in the ambulance was fun because it was my first time the contractions were not bad so me and husband was clowning around.  We had the best experience of our lives because we experience together and we will never forget that moment of our son being born into the world at 4:32 am.  I choose this experience because my baby boy was place into ICU for a month because he was born early and it will be a reminder that my baby was a miracle baby for me a my husband because he could not breath and was on breathing tubes at first but he was strong and pull through.  He is one years old now and he learns very quickly and loves to laugh I know he will pull through and change as he grows up.  I will work with him and show him how to learn through play and other activities we will work together. 

            While researching other countries I have found in the country of Africa women our not even going to the hospital to have their babies because of the fear of treatment they will receive from the nurses.  Many women and their babies die because of the process that is taking when women go into labor.  They are not getting the proper care throughout their pregnancy and for the baby is at risk before they are even born.  Many organizations are trying to figure out how they can help this country turn around the death rates of the women and babies in this country.  This is an example of how the poor econmey hurts our children before they are even born.  There are no similarities but there is a huge difference between the births in the U.S compare to the births in Africa.  Women are afraid to ask for help because they fear people will treat them badly in the hospital and they will not get the proper help they need because they are poor.  When this happens the women than hurt themselves because they develop sickness that are worst and that can kill them.  The insight I gain from this comparison is get help when needed and find the right treatment no mater your finical situation someone will help you you just have to look.